The Lost Art of Romance

Things are constantly changing and evolving, in many ways for the better – every day our understanding of science, technology and medicine grows and improves our way of life. However, what with all the fast-paced changes going on all the time, some important parts of life can all-too-easily fall by the wayside. A loss of manners has put some in a tizz, as has a disregard for national traditions, and the days of Clark Gable-romance has all but gone out the window.

Why send flowers when you can send a text, right?

Vanishing are the days of mix-tapes and hand-picked bouquets; of guitar serenades, black-and-white films, and saying farewell at train stations. Soppy romantic gestures can make people feel uncomfortable, and though certain parts of stereotypical romance can lean a little on the cheese; does it really have to slip so far from tradition. Traditions are bound to change with the times, but certain gestures have a timeless quality that needn’t dissipate. From grand schemes such as surprise romantic getaways to simple tokens of affection like an opulent bouquet of flowers are the old-fashioned gesture that works as well today as it did then. For extravagance and minimal effort, you could try Interflora for flowers.

The romantic getaway is another old-chestnut, and probably has the greatest impact when it’s to a destination your partner has always longed to go to. Popular destinations known for their seductive and enchanting auras are easy to find and book over the internet: Paris, Rome Venice, can all come on the cheap, without any quality being taken out of the visit. These days you don’t even have to worry about excessive expense or hassle when it comes to romance – most good hotels and restaurants offer great deals aimed specifically at couples. Try Travelzo for city breaks and cheap flights to some destinations well-known for their romantic tones. 

Taking your partner to see a classic black and white film, puts you in the centre of cinema's romantic history. Films like Casablanca, His Girl Friday and Some Like it Hot are good for the heart and soul. Look at the National Film Theatre's schedule - they often have classic film seasons. 

We could probably all do with making a spontaneous or planned gesture here and there. It takes little effort to purchase online, and have a beautiful bunch of flowers at your door the next day to please and perk up a loved one.